A hundred women were asked, “Out of the three races—African American, Caucasian and Asian— which one do you think is the most sexual and which one is the least?” The results of the survey show that African American men were seen as the most sexual while Asian men were seen as the least.  The good news is that Asian men were seen as having the most secure financial future.   

How did it turn out that Asian men were considered to be the most asexual out of all the other races? We were always brought up to focus on school and our career. “Go to school and make good grades so that you can be a doctor. Then when you are a doctor, you will have a lot of money and the women will come.”  This was what my mom would ingrain in my head. 

While the other guys were trying to get laid during high school, we were spending most of our time playing video games and being in the math club. A study had shown that 80 percent of Caucasian male students had lost their virginity during high school, whereas only 17 percent of Asian male students did. What is interesting is that a whopping 60 percent of Asian female students had lost their virginity. Were the 80 percent of Caucasian guys sleeping with our Asian women while we were in the math club? 

Does this mean that if we follow our parents’ advice, it will suppress our sexual desires and turn us into beta men? Keep this up and it will force our existence out of the gene pool! Asian men are seen as asexual, whereas Asian women have flings and sexual adventures with other races and then settle down with us. Talk about sloppy seconds! What are we doing wrong and how can we prevent this? 

The men that are considered to be the alpha male in any social group tend to be the most desired among women. The traits that I mention below are the main characteristics of an alpha male. The more you demonstrate these alpha male qualities, the more sexual you become to women. Not all Asian men need this advice. But if you do not have any women in your life, put down the video game controller and read carefully. 

No more Mr. Nice Guy.
Asian men are seen as nice guys. Apologizing for everything that you do, trying to please everyone and being overly nice are traits that will throw you in a friend zone in no time. Being too much of a gentleman can also be negative. Running to open the door for her will be viewed as being more of a servant than a lover. 

I wouldn’t say women want bad boys but if they had a choice between a bad boy and a nice guy, they would choose the greater of the two evils to fulfill their sexual desires. Bad boys might not be good to bring home to momma, but they sure can rock the hell out of her in bed! They can be jerks and treat women poorly, but they have some characteristics that make women’s knees go weak. The main elements that these bad boys have that make them oh-so sexier than a nice guy are confidence, dominance, strength and independence.

Make her feel protected.
Out of the three races, the Asian man is probably the smallest in stature.  Perhaps, we are also the most timid, because women don’t feel safe around us Asian guys.  Not in the sense that we will take advantage of them, but more in the sense of “Can this guy protect me?”  We don’t need to be able to fight and defend her, but we should be able to at least stand up for her and let it be known that we can and will protect and take care of her. 

How can I be more sexual?
Some tips I give to my students are as follows: Move slower and with purpose. Make strong but lazy eye contact. Speak to her softly and slowly with a deep manly voice. Touch her gently but firmly. And be sure to be close to her. Just doing those subtle but effective things and combining those with the core alpha traits will make you a sexual Asian male in no time! 

Let’s change those survey results!
Being a typical nice guy, who goes to school to get a good paying job just to have women who will come chasing after you, is a dream that might come true ... that is, if you live in Asia. With women being more strong and independent in this modern day society, your being able to provide for them will just not be enough for them to have a sexual relationship with you. 

Sexual traits such as confidence, dominance, leadership and protection are what she desires. Gentlemen, it’s no longer about the Benjamins­—you got to satisfy her sexual desires. Tap into your inner primal desires and show our women how much of a sexual beast we are!